The Party Pooper
Just imagine being labeled as the "party pooper". You spoil everyone's fun because you just maybe wanna go home only you aren't comfortable in that area. I guess I can be that girl sometimes. I like my friends, love hanging out with them, but at a particular hour in the evening, I feel like the party has ended and I just really need to go home to sleep.
I was conflicted the other day. I was wondering that if having a boyfriend hinders a person from fully engaging with their friends. Most of my female friends are single and sometimes complain about getting a boyfriend. Whereas, I already have one., so it's hard for me to engage in such a conversation when my heart is already set on one person.
So many questions course my mind:
1. When is the appropriate time to go out with friends?
2. How do I feel about my boyfriend going out with his friends?
Not turning this blog into a relationship thing, but I've had some people mention to me that they would prefer to go out or hang out with their boyfriend rather than friends. I don't want to have to come to that sad state in my life.
I want to be able to balance the two and probably learn to be more of a social individual. Being socially awkward is much of a task and a wall to break down.
I believe the key to all of this is finding good friends that love one another and look out for each other.
I was conflicted the other day. I was wondering that if having a boyfriend hinders a person from fully engaging with their friends. Most of my female friends are single and sometimes complain about getting a boyfriend. Whereas, I already have one., so it's hard for me to engage in such a conversation when my heart is already set on one person.
So many questions course my mind:
1. When is the appropriate time to go out with friends?
2. How do I feel about my boyfriend going out with his friends?
Not turning this blog into a relationship thing, but I've had some people mention to me that they would prefer to go out or hang out with their boyfriend rather than friends. I don't want to have to come to that sad state in my life.
I want to be able to balance the two and probably learn to be more of a social individual. Being socially awkward is much of a task and a wall to break down.
I believe the key to all of this is finding good friends that love one another and look out for each other.
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